Monday, July 6, 2009

Quote for the day


Love begins with a smile,
grows with a kiss,
and ends with a teardrop.
-Anonymous

Taking the day off today. I plan on taking the dogs for a long walk, buying some groceries, grilling out and just enjoying the day. Hope everyone had a wonderful weekend.

I also changed my blog name. I think it suits my blog better. You like? Thoughts please.

Update:
I guess a new name needs a new look too.

Sunday, July 5, 2009

Thoughts for the day....


So the Boy and I have hung out together a couple of times. I decided to just go with it and see what happens. He is very sweet. He is smart and cute and I love his goofy smile. I could really like him. But sadly, we do not want the same things. I don't want casual and he doesn't have time for serious. So it might be over before it even begins. sigh...

And now I am sad.

Saturday, July 4, 2009

Happy Birthday!

These two are "Birthday Buddies" as Isabelle would say. Their birthday is actually on the 3rd but we had a little breakfast birthday party this morning.

Every year Isabelle wears something to celebrate Independence Day and the Birthday. Notice the crazy flip flops?


Isabelle was most excited about the Hershey chocolate bars she received while Johnathan was thrilled about the money. He's saving for a trip to Washington D.C. so all he wanted was cash. (This boy has quite the blended-extended family so collecting $1000 by spring shouldn't be a problem.)

Friday, July 3, 2009

Nitefall on the River

Last night my good friends and I decided to get together. We started the evening at a lovely restaurant, Dos Rios. The food was excellent and the drinks were quite adequate. For having over 100 different tequilas I would expect a better margarita.

I can't remember why Beth was scolding JJ. It probably had something to do with him not committing to something.

Mikey met us at the concert.

Beth's sunglasses broke. Which was quite a tragedy since the sun was so bright.

This is such a great place for concerts. Sister Hazel was our concert of choice. They put on a pretty good show I must say.

It was so much nicer when the sun finally went down. And so pretty too.

Wish I would have brought my real camera. But not too shabby for a cell phone.

A great night was had by everyone and I'm glad we left when we did. Recovery might be a little slow today.

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Conversations


Scene: Friends preparing for get-together tomorrow.
Concert and food and drinks.

Beth: Ok, tickets are ordered, $16.50 each, plus my own personal handling fee of $3.50= $20 each.

Kara: My fee “to be seen with me” is $20 – so it’s a wash for me. Can’t wait for tomorrow!

Jeremy: You pay people $20 to hang out with u?!?

Kara: No that’s how you get your girlfriends…. $20/hour.

Mike: Bam!

Jeremy: I wish they were that cheap!


I think Jeremy wins that round....
Facebook Conversation Update:

Kara: Looking forward to Nitefall on the River tonight!

Beth: Me too!

Jeremy: I don't know. I guess it will be ok.

Mike: Comment Explanation: Kara and Beth are excited because they'll be attending with two of the best looking guys in Iowa. Although Sister Hazel is one of JJ favorites, he says it will be "ok" because he has to go with Kara and Beth.

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Rite of Passage

Hello Braceface!
(Notice the rubberbands match his uniform.)

Relationships

I so don't get them...I pick the most inappropriate guys. I mostly pick non-committal types. Let's see... recently there was Texas (far away), then Air Force(far, far away) and now The Boy. The Boy is way too young. No matter what anyone says the age difference is just too big. He would be fun for a while but I'm sure it would just end badly (for me). Maybe it's because I really don't want to be in a relationship that I pick guys that won't last. I don't know...I think I want one. I would like to fall in love again...with someone who thinks I'm pretty amazing.

With that said, I tend not to date much if ever. I have done *a lot* of counseling through the years and most of my "life" is in good shape. This is the one area that I just can't seem to figure out. Feel free to leave your thoughts. Or not. It's just a little update on my life as a singleton.

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Patio Update





A little update on Con's patio for you. Doesn't it look amazing?!? I really can't wait to see it with some furniture and plants. But as we all know things happen in stages. I know Con isn't running out right now to buy new chairs. I think she will wait until the end of the season to see if she can get a deal on some things. None-the-less I look forward to hanging out on Con's new patio with a nice glass of wine.

On another note - I met a very interesting fellow at Gray's Lake last night. He was hanging out with his daughter and their little chihuahua, Birthday. (Cute name huh?) We chatted for a little bit and we both said, "Look forward to seeing you tomorrow." Could be interesting since he is totally not my type. (Meaning he's total punk and tattoos and I'm more of the girl-next-door kind of girl.)

Monday, June 29, 2009

Weekend Update

Oh it was a gorgeous weekend. My niece, Isabelle decided she having a "spend over with me" last week. I think she starting packing for it last Monday.

We had a great time. She was a little annoyed that I didn't arrive in a timely fashion so she called to ask me what was taking me so long!

She is such a funny girl and I love her dearly!

The Art Festival was fantastic this year. So many great artist came to our humble little city. Free music, great food, wine and beer. I didn't go to the free concert with Gavin DeGraw and I am totally kicking myself right now.


Cali Hobgood-Lemme was my favorite this year. I really really wanted to buy something but I just couldn't justify it this year.



This was another favorite. I forgot to pick up a card from this artist. The booth was super busy since tons of people were intrigued by the art work.


Downtown DSM is growing so much - I have no idea what this new building is. It could be new condos or a new insurance building.


Sunday, June 28, 2009

Weekend Update


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Originally uploaded by KMay2009
What a nice weekend it has been. The Des Moines Art Festival is my favorite thing of the whole summer. It really is a good production all around.

This compliment is still swimming in my brain...
"U were just so hot...professionally dressed, beautiful smile, great personality, independent woman, very sexy. plus the glasses made u look smart. " There are a couple more but I think I'll keep them to myself...

More tomorrow about the weekend.

Friday, June 26, 2009

Unclutter



And while we're on the subject of clutter and no clutter - I was reading Unclutter today and I came across this post. I don't have a music room, I have a music area. I loved this post because it had some great solutions to clutter that goes with playing an instrument.

I'm not sure why this photo is so grainy. (Cell phones gotta love them.) My music area is in the dining room - it works just fine for me. I painted my music stand a bright green just for fun. Extra music goes in my teak book case. Metronome sits on the shelf.

Bookworm


Read Apartment Therapy - The Eight Step Home Cure the other night. While I don't need this for my house. I think others could totally benefit from it. I plan to help my sister do this with her house. 4 kids and a husband make for a crazy household.
There were definitely things I totally agreed with Maxwell Gillingham-Ryan. I truly believe if you house isn't in order then your life isn't in order. And when one thing falls into place then other things follow. Here's a few quotes from the book that I thought were pretty powerful:
"Like the body, the home should be thought of as a living organism. Healthy homes are home that consume carefully and get regular exercise...."
"Over attachment to possessions is one of the most powerful habits that you will encounter during the Cure."
"But when we take something new into our home, we rarely let go of something else. This is how our home gains weight, grows unhealthy, and begins to nag at us. Not only have we created some new diseases, we've even created new doctors to treat our problem. Professional organizers and home disaster specialists have sprung up only recently, and their job is to help us sort and manage our extra weight.
Most of us aren't in need of more organizing; we need to manage our consumption, let go of our stuff and learn how to restore life to our homes."
Maxwell creates a whole system to gain control of your house. To me, it totally makes sense. I don't have a huge problem with clutter. I have a closet that needs to be cleaned and a few cabinets that are a little full. Having grown up with a couple of pack rats, who moved city to city with boxes that were never opened and gone through, I get a little bonkers if there is a lot of clutter around. (Some of these boxes were full of baby clothes when I was a teenager. Who was my mother saving this crap for?) I do have a few things that I have saved just because...because if I got rid of it my mom would be pissed. I'm a 40 year old woman and yet I worry about that. Crazy I know!
I digress...The book is a quick read and easy to follow - I highly recommend it.

RIP

Michael Jackson

Thursday, June 25, 2009

RIP

RIP - Farrah Fawcett

Oh, how I loved Farrah and her hair.


Patio Update




Thought I would give you another look at Con's patio progress. Looking good isn't it? I can't wait to see the end result.